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Is it you or is it me? : how we turn our emotions inisde out and blame each other

Author
Wetzler, Scott, 1955-
Title
Is it you or is it me? : how we turn our emotions inisde out and blame each other / by Scott Wetzler with Diane Cole.
Format
Book
Edition
1st ed.
Published
New York : HarperCollins Publishers, c1998.
Description
xvii, 252 p. ; 22 cm.
Other contributors
Cole, Diane.
Notes
Includes index.
Contents
  • Introduction: is it you or is it me? Why we blame each other
  • How did we get so confused? The psychological dynamic that turns our emotions inside out
  • The land of he said/she said: are we struggling with our partners or ourselves?
  • Confronting anger: getting from mutual rage to mutual respect
  • When happily ever after isn't: blaming each other for our own disappointments
  • The dance of mutual dependency: why we fight it, and why we shouldn't
  • Confusing love with emasculation: the fragile male ego
  • Raw and vulnerable: women's fear of intimacy
  • Exposing ourselves: splitting off sex from emotion
  • Whose side are you on? When we compete instead of partner
  • Separation pains: moving beyond the scorched-earth divorce
  • Reconciling the past: healing ourselves, forgiving others
  • Going forward: insight, mastery, tolerance.
Kinsey subjects
Sexual communication. Interpersonal relations. Communication. Sex education advice.
ISBN
0060187433 9780060187439

Holdings

Library
Blmgtn - Kinsey Institute Library (by appointment only)
Call Number
144.1 W48 i7 1998
Location
Auxiliary Library Facility - Kinsey Institute