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Is it you or is it me? : how we turn our emotions inisde out and blame each other
- Author
- Wetzler, Scott, 1955-
- Title
- Is it you or is it me? : how we turn our emotions inisde out and blame each other / by Scott Wetzler with Diane Cole.
- Format
- Book
- Edition
- 1st ed.
- Published
- New York : HarperCollins Publishers, c1998.
- Description
- xvii, 252 p. ; 22 cm.
- Other contributors
- Cole, Diane.
- Notes
- Includes index.
- Contents
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- Introduction: is it you or is it me? Why we blame each other
- How did we get so confused? The psychological dynamic that turns our emotions inside out
- The land of he said/she said: are we struggling with our partners or ourselves?
- Confronting anger: getting from mutual rage to mutual respect
- When happily ever after isn't: blaming each other for our own disappointments
- The dance of mutual dependency: why we fight it, and why we shouldn't
- Confusing love with emasculation: the fragile male ego
- Raw and vulnerable: women's fear of intimacy
- Exposing ourselves: splitting off sex from emotion
- Whose side are you on? When we compete instead of partner
- Separation pains: moving beyond the scorched-earth divorce
- Reconciling the past: healing ourselves, forgiving others
- Going forward: insight, mastery, tolerance.
- Kinsey subjects
- Sexual communication. Interpersonal relations. Communication. Sex education advice.
- ISBN
- 0060187433 9780060187439